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Thursday, 12 January 2012

How to Attract a Woman


This article explains how to talk to a woman to generate tons of attraction.

Steps

  1. In the very beginning of the first conversation you should do about 75% of the talking. Your aim here is to demonstrate your fantastic personality and high value. Avoid doing what most guys do, which is to put the conversational burden on her with redundant questions and digging for commonalities. Your aim is to keep the conversation light, fun, and playful.
  2. Avoid mundane subjects like work, politics, or ANYTHING negative. Be in control of the initial conversation, but don’t be controlling. Don’t let yourself slip into interview type questions. When she brings up boring subjects don’t allow the conversation to go that way. Gently push the conversation in another direction, by saying something that has something to do with the topic, but is funny, light,and might bring back some kind of memory for her. Then, she might tell you the story.
  3. Many women will say they have a boyfriend if they don’t have enough attraction for you yet, so just blow past it. Ignore it. Pretend you didn’t hear it. Or, if that would be awkward, just say “Cool. Anyway…” and continue talking. If she insists on talking about him, one thing you can say is: “Wow, what’s it like to be in the perfect relationship?”- This will make her give reasons why her relationship is NOT perfect. Again, though, as a general rule of thumb, you should plow past the boyfriend claim as soon as possible. Don’t make him into a reality.
  4. Do not be outcome dependent. You don’t care if you have her attraction or not. You’re there to entertain yourself, and whatever happens, happens.
  5. Don’t supplicate. If the woman deciphers, even for a moment, that she has more value than you do, you’ll be blown out instantly. There are MANY techniques you can use to demonstrate your non-neediness, but for now the best thing you can do is detach from outcome. She’ll sense your non-needy attitude, and that should be enough to keep you safely beyond her threshold of value checking, and build up some mean attraction to boot.
  6. Be laid back and nonchalant about the whole thing. You’re just messing around and your number one priority is to have fun. Flirt, tease, be slightly cocky, and use sarcasm (with a wry smile thrown in so she knows you’re just messing around). Pretend you’re speaking to an old friend. If she says something that you disagree with, tell her. Don’t be mean, don’t be offended, just rationalize your opinion and tease her about how she’s not cool if she doesn’t agree with you (wry smile here folks, wry smile).
  7. Implement what we call "Reverse cold reading to bait qualification," or RCR. How it works is this: Find something about her that you're fairly certain is not true. Then, say you don't like that quality in a girl. Because it's NOT true about her, she will then explain herself to you and let you know that she is not that way. This is called qualifying, and we do it when we're trying to win the favor of someone. What you're doing here is baiting her qualification, and unconciously she will become more attracted to you when she takes that bait, jumps through your hoop, and starts qualifying herself to you.
  8. Be composed. Yes, very, very composed. Like the captain, you know exactly where you want to go and everything you say and do has a purpose. It's important to remember that picking up girls is largely about time management. Why waste your time with conversation that isn’t pushing you closer to your goal? Besides, distractions may arise that will steal her attention, so each minute counts. With a little practice it's easy to close numbers in seconds rather than minutes.
  9. Lastly, while speaking to a woman you are constantly assessing her attraction. Look for open body language, dilated pupils, giggling, and touching. Regardless of her personality or culture, women are pretty consistent with signs of attraction. With just a little practice you’ll be able to pick up on these signs very quickly. Just follow you’re hunch, it’s usually correct. Thanks for reading!


Tips

  • Do not force a girl to do anything
  • Your first impression is very important.
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    Tuesday, 10 January 2012

    How to Go About With Conversational Hypnosis


    What do you understand by Hypnosis? If you didn’t already know, hypnosis is nothing but "the ability to surpass the Critical Factor of your brain and to establish an acceptance of selective thinking that is influenced by an external source".

    Steps

    1. Listen to the subject:
      • You must be a patient listener to first hear out the person you are hypnotizing on the things that trouble her. Typically, the subject must have volunteered for the session in order to get rid of a certain habit, such a s smoking. Alternatively, conversational hypnosis can be used to hypnotize subjects who are completely unaware they are being hypnotized, to get them into doing something they would not do otherwise.
    2. Attract your subject’s attention and keep it maintained:
      • This can be accomplished immediately after the first step since the subject now knows that you are interested in helping her and are willing to focus on her troubles. Use soothing words and never try to be commanding in your tone of speech. Make the subject feel rather comfortable in your company.
    3. Establish rapport with the subject:
      • Rapport is nothing but getting your subject engrossed in your conversation so much so that she thinks it really is intriguing information and is of some help to her. The subject must feel safe with you and should be interested in whatever you say. Before you start conveying the actual message that is the purpose of the conversational hypnosis building a good rapport is essential.
    4. Induce Trance:
      • By incorporating truisms to which the subject readily agrees you induce a state of trance where the subject has got into a habit of agreeing to the things you say. These truisms could be anything that are associated closely with what trouble the subject is facing so that she can easily connect with what is being said and what s he is going through.
    5. Present your suggestions to the subject:
      • Now you start the actual hypnosis by slowly and gradually inculcating into the subject’s mind ideas that you wish to convey and want her subconscious mind to accept as truth. Most often than not these suggestions easily penetrate through the subject’s mind and the conscious mind does not analyze it too much but accepts it as it is. This leads to the subject being able to execute those suggestions into actions and thus help is sought successfully.